The 3 love scenarios:
Tell your family that you are in love with a person and he/she is from a different religion..... Dad's response,"This wasn't expected from you at all, Were you brought up in such a culture to do this?Did we teach you this?At least you should have found someone in the same religion, we would have agreed.This is never possible!!!! You have to choose between him/her or us"..... [Topic dismissed]......
Tell your family that you are in love with a person and he/she is from a different caste....Dad's response,"This wasn't expected from you at all.Were you brought up in such culture to do his?Did we teach you this? At least you should have found someone in the same caste, we would have agreed.This is never possible!!!"..... [Topic dismissed]......
Take a guy/girl home of the same caste...Dad's response,"This wasn't expected from you at all.Were you brought up in such a culture to do this?Did we teach you this? This is not possible!!!"..... [Topic dismissed]......
Alas....!!!!.... every situation has a problem only the intensity differs..... The first reaction has to be NO, without them even knowing the person you have choosen to be with.Then, the regular fights, discussions,sessions of being ignored by parents and the drama continues! After this hurdle, comes into picture the 'Kundali'. Kundali- for which every pandit has to say something different...... Some lucky ones get through this and the rest have to stop their journey here itself....
The main cause after all this drama is the society ... What will the society think???? And this society includes - the relatives who come into picture only in weddings and funerals,who wouldn't even remember when they last visited your place or vice-versa,who wouldn't even know that you have met twice with an accident since you last met them and you were going through a tough time.... Yes, but they would make sure to pop-up at the right time in case you are going for an inter-cast marriage to honour your already screwed up life with their opinions. My scrutiny says that most of the parents will never have a problem if this society never existed.They have a problem because their is a society around which bothers them and they, being a part of it, have to mark their actions to let not give them a chance to raise their fingers on them.....
I wish I could live to see a day when our society becomes sensible enough to accept inter religion and inter caste marriages. They start considering the person totally on the basis of what he/she is rather than of what caste the person belongs to... We are, no doubt, labeled with a religion and a caste the moment we are born but God doesn't differentiate us on the basis of the same... Each one of us is His child and just wonderfully made !!.... The religion,the caste can never determine our being..... The stars can be for or against ....the fate can be supportive or destructive....the times can be good or bad..... but His shield is always there to protect us no matter which religion we belong to....
I just hope that someday, India breaks these shackles of religion and caste.... We are free to follow any religion we want to but lets not implant these thoughts in the generations to come.Let them give them freedom to choose what they love. Let them actually be the child of God and not the child of Allah,Jesus or Ram.....
Tell your family that you are in love with a person and he/she is from a different religion..... Dad's response,"This wasn't expected from you at all, Were you brought up in such a culture to do this?Did we teach you this?At least you should have found someone in the same religion, we would have agreed.This is never possible!!!! You have to choose between him/her or us"..... [Topic dismissed]......
Tell your family that you are in love with a person and he/she is from a different caste....Dad's response,"This wasn't expected from you at all.Were you brought up in such culture to do his?Did we teach you this? At least you should have found someone in the same caste, we would have agreed.This is never possible!!!"..... [Topic dismissed]......
Take a guy/girl home of the same caste...Dad's response,"This wasn't expected from you at all.Were you brought up in such a culture to do this?Did we teach you this? This is not possible!!!"..... [Topic dismissed]......
Alas....!!!!.... every situation has a problem only the intensity differs..... The first reaction has to be NO, without them even knowing the person you have choosen to be with.Then, the regular fights, discussions,sessions of being ignored by parents and the drama continues! After this hurdle, comes into picture the 'Kundali'. Kundali- for which every pandit has to say something different...... Some lucky ones get through this and the rest have to stop their journey here itself....
The main cause after all this drama is the society ... What will the society think???? And this society includes - the relatives who come into picture only in weddings and funerals,who wouldn't even remember when they last visited your place or vice-versa,who wouldn't even know that you have met twice with an accident since you last met them and you were going through a tough time.... Yes, but they would make sure to pop-up at the right time in case you are going for an inter-cast marriage to honour your already screwed up life with their opinions. My scrutiny says that most of the parents will never have a problem if this society never existed.They have a problem because their is a society around which bothers them and they, being a part of it, have to mark their actions to let not give them a chance to raise their fingers on them.....
I wish I could live to see a day when our society becomes sensible enough to accept inter religion and inter caste marriages. They start considering the person totally on the basis of what he/she is rather than of what caste the person belongs to... We are, no doubt, labeled with a religion and a caste the moment we are born but God doesn't differentiate us on the basis of the same... Each one of us is His child and just wonderfully made !!.... The religion,the caste can never determine our being..... The stars can be for or against ....the fate can be supportive or destructive....the times can be good or bad..... but His shield is always there to protect us no matter which religion we belong to....
I just hope that someday, India breaks these shackles of religion and caste.... We are free to follow any religion we want to but lets not implant these thoughts in the generations to come.Let them give them freedom to choose what they love. Let them actually be the child of God and not the child of Allah,Jesus or Ram.....
situation 4: u go for arrange marriage as per ur parents choice and they will end up having problem with his/her family........ Father to prospective bride/groom; " were u brought up in this manner,is this ur culture".................shaadi cancelled......hahahah so best is run away and take aashirwaad later...;)
ReplyDelete@richa.... you are through anyways....... I can definitely try out your so called "best option" lollzzz... !!!
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